On Feb 21, 2:48 pm, "Jim"
> "faye"
>
> > Yes, he did know. His sister was also in on it. He was using her
> > address when he applied. She received 2 letters one dated March of
> > 06, the other dated June of 06. It said we have benefits here for
> > your dependent child. Please apply for these, if your not in custody
> > of her, please inform parent who is. 1 month later my daughter was at
> > Grandpa and grandmas house.(his parents} NO ONE LOOKED OUT FOR
> > HER???? We all live in the same town. I find this cruel.
>
> I wonder if Child Protective Services, or the SSA would find this to be
> neglect or cruelty on his part....
> I'd hit him low, and hard....
My ex sounds alot like yours. My three kids are also very happy that
we finally got a divorce. And they are all our biological children
together. They agree in the divorce and know that it was for the
best. My ex is so controlling... he just e-mailed our youngest
daughter and said the money she gets (if she gets it) from ss is her's
not moms. We have appealed through the ss office, my daughter signed a
statement saying her father kept this money away from us as another
way to hurt mom. This was 13 weeks ago. All I can do is wait.