alt.social-security-disability

"faye" wrote in message
news:a177268a-330f-4816-9c5f-7579af7be16c@...
> On Mar 2, 11:08 pm, Rick wrote:
>> faye wrote:
>>
>> > On Feb 21, 2:48 pm, "Jim" wrote:
>> > > "faye" wrote
>>
>> > > > Yes, he did know. His sister was also in on it. He was using her
>> > > > address when he applied. She received 2 letters one dated March of
>> > > > 06, the other dated June of 06. It said we have benefits here for
>> > > > your dependent child. Please apply for these, if your not in
>> > > > custody
>> > > > of her, please inform parent who is. 1 month later my daughter was
>> > > > at
>> > > > Grandpa and grandmas house.(his parents} NO ONE LOOKED OUT FOR
>> > > > HER???? We all live in the same town. I find this cruel.
>>
>> > > I wonder if Child Protective Services, or the SSA would find this
>> > > to be
>> > > neglect or cruelty on his part....
>> > > I'd hit him low, and hard....
>>
>> > My ex sounds alot like yours. My three kids are also very happy that
>> > we finally got a divorce. And they are all our biological children
>> > together. They agree in the divorce and know that it was for the
>> > best. My ex is so controlling... he just e-mailed our youngest
>> > daughter and said the money she gets (if she gets it) from ss is her's
>> > not moms.
>>
>> Just so you don't misunderstand, he is correct on that point. The money
>> for a dependent child is to be spent on the child's behalf. It is *not*
>> a free ride for a parent or parents to spend the dependents SS money on
>> whatever they want. For example, you can spent an appropriate percentage
>> of her funds on housing or food. The check is *not* there to cover the
>> entire housing costs or 100% of the groceries purchased for the entire
>> family.
>>
>> Rick
>>
>> > We have appealed through the ss office, my daughter signed a
>> > statement saying her father kept this money away from us as another
>> > way to hurt mom. This was 13 weeks ago. All I can do is wait.
>
> This is true. That's common sense. I received the house in our
> divorce. As everyone knows it takes a lot to keep and maintain a
> house. All of that money would have went for housing, food , medical
> and education for my dependent daughter. I have been working 2 jobs,
> my dependent daughter has been working for the past several years to
> help with her own expenses. She is now in college and on the A honor
> role. . It's the principal of what happened. My ex and his family
> kept this information from us. Their just cruel people.


Cruel yes. Misguided as well. That is not how family are supposed to treat
each other. Especialy when it's an innocent child.